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  . . What’s your greatest be apologetic about in existence? Is it a mistake...

 

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What’s your greatest be apologetic about in existence?

Is it a mistake you still reside on? A trail you know you must’ve taken? An individual you want you hadn’t given such a lot time to?

And should you had the chance, would you return in time and do one thing another way? Or would you’re taking this Cormac McCarthy quote to center: “You by no means know what worse success your unhealthy success has stored you from”?

Remorseful about is greater than a tragic, wistful daydream. It might probably motive us an incredible quantity of ache nowadays and in fact save you us from taking part in our lives.

Should you’re keeping directly to any more or less be apologetic about, you’ll be able to’t leave out this week’s new video.

 

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so what’s be apologetic about however this tale we stay
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telling ourselves that
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we’re the one that has achieved this to
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us
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when actually it’s also possible to say {that a}
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stranger on the street
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did this to us
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as a result of since then such a lot of iterations of
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us
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have come alongside
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[Music]
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steve we’re speaking about living on
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our errors
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i might say to any individual in the market do you
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are you able to name one thing to intellect at this time
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that
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you’ve gotten
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as a be apologetic about
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it’s really easy for
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be apologetic about
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to
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make us
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be ourselves up and create a real
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sense of self-loathing to the purpose
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the place it’s in point of fact
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tricky to hook up with ourselves in a
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sure means and be apologetic about too can make us
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very envious and indignant in opposition to the
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global
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i will simply call to mind
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folks that
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i’m acutely aware of in my existence who
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had been in a courting for a few years
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and were given to the purpose the place
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they learned that they needed to get out
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of it
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however then appeared again at the years the place
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they’d recognized one thing was once deeply mistaken
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years the place they knew that that they had
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stayed with the mistaken particular person
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and are actually discovering themselves
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oscillating between
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anger
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in opposition to
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that particular person or in opposition to the other intercourse
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normally
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and anger in opposition to themselves for
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permitting it to occur
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so these items may cause an incredible
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quantity of ache for us within the provide
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they may be able to motive an immense quantity of
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trauma they usually actually can prevent us
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from taking part in our lives within the provide
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day
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so i sought after to speak about this nowadays and
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get into it no longer
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essentially as a selected matter about
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our
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courting lives despite the fact that a lot of our
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regrets would possibly intersect with our love
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lives however
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as a basic theme
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that i do know can be affecting numerous
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listeners in the market of this podcast
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steve what are your ideas on be apologetic about
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as an idea
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neatly let me simply flip this round one
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second does
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have regrets
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sure
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[Music]
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to be had and now directly to the episode
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the short resolution is sure and
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and i’ve
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in my existence if i added up the volume of
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time that i’ve spent
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beating myself up
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for positive issues that i’ve achieved and
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in my case they fall into each
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classes i’ve regrets that fall into
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the class of
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i keep in mind an overly explicit second in my
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existence the place i want i had
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i used to be met with a fork within the
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highway the place i may have long past a method or
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the opposite
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and that i want that i had long past the wrong way
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and i will additionally take a look at regrets i’ve
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round
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issues that i did for a very long time
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that experience had an impact on my existence
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there’s a
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a paradox
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to my regrets and i guess to regrets
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normally i i’m positive i’ve quoted this
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at the podcast earlier than however
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anne lamott stated um in her
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ebook the whole thing
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virtually the whole thing i do know
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i believe it’s referred to as however she says all
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reality is paradox
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and it may be true it undoubtedly is correct
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for me that
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i each have regrets
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that
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i might be tempted if i had been in a position to
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doing so i might be tempted to return
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and do one thing another way
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however i might additionally in fact be too afraid
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to switch it
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yeah as a result of i might be too fearful of
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dropping all of the excellent that has come from
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the ones
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moments in my existence so there may be this
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paradox
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that i each have regrets
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but additionally don’t suppose that i might alternate
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the ones issues
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if i may just as a result of i’d be too afraid
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that the existence that i like nowadays and the
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issues that i like in my existence nowadays
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can be adversely affected or wouldn’t
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even exist if i did alternate one among them
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neatly that is the place it will get form of
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existential as a result of
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some issues there’s a core mac mccarthy
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quote that claims you by no means know what
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worst success your unhealthy success has stored you
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from
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and there are specific issues that you just
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may regard as
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unhealthy issues befalling you unhealthy selections
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uh issues the place you should have made a
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extra optimal determination
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say you selected
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someplace other to visit college or
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you
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selected a special spouse while you had been
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21 you you selected a special female friend
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and also you move guy if i knew i might have
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by no means dated that particular person
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however
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you don’t know what that grew to become you into
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nowadays courting that particular person you don’t know
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what forks within the highway that modified it
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can have stored you from any other type
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of disaster so
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this can be a little tricky to play as neil
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ferguson calls it counterfactual historical past
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with your personal existence
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there could be evident ones proper perhaps
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some other people be apologetic about they didn’t hand over
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smoking previous
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it’s arduous to mention there’s going to be an
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upside to having been smoking for an
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further twenty years so there could be evident
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ones the place you move i must have achieved
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that faster or
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nice i like later this i must have
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loved it no then or i might have
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loved it within the smoking instance
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and in any instance like that it’s at all times
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really easy to mention oh god i might have
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i if i knew
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then what i do know now i wouldn’t have
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smoked or i wouldn’t have i wouldn’t
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have dated that particular person i wouldn’t have
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married that particular person i i might have i
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would have modified and also you move yeah however
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you weren’t able
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that that wasn’t who you had been then
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you weren’t able
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should you had been able
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to listen to what you’re listening to now and
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performing on now
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you could possibly have achieved one thing other
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and however you’ll be able to’t play that recreation as a result of
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you weren’t that particular person
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so it might actually you could possibly be
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reinventing the universe
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should you actually do this concept experiment
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of making an attempt to return to once more in
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your existence
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you don’t even in point of fact know that particular person
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anymore
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yeah you you handiest know your reminiscence
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of that particular person
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as a result of through the years
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you’ve
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you’ve modified you’ve advanced
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and such as you say
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such as you say once in a while it’ll hit you if
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you return and spot an electronic mail you wrote
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while you had been 18 and also you’d be like what
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cringy
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fool wrote this yeah you suppose who was once
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that you just gained’t even acknowledge it and
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you’ll be like what is that this cringy crap
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i’m writing check out studying an outdated magazine
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when you have ever stored a magazine check out
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studying an outdated magazine
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and it a few of the ones stuff you you
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snigger since you’re like that that’s so
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humorous
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i assumed that i i did that i
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we
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we shift our recollections shift our recollections
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of our recollections shift our character
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shifts for all in depth functions we’re
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not the similar particular person
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that we had been and so after we be apologetic about
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one thing
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all we’re actually doing is keeping directly to
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a tale
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a reminiscence of one thing we needed we’d
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achieved another way
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however who was once achieved by means of an individual we no
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longer are
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so what’s be apologetic about however this tale we stay
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telling ourselves that
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we’re the one that has achieved this to
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us
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when actually it’s also possible to say that
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a stranger on the street
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did this to us
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as a result of since then such a lot of iterations of
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us
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have come alongside
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and that’s why
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i when i say be apologetic about no longer handiest
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kills our happiness
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however blinds us to our doable
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i sincerely imply
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that
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we don’t have any thought of simply how a lot
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we’re in a position to nowadays
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we don’t have any thought of what’s imaginable
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for us
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of what we will be able to do i went to poland with
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wim hof and a bunch of 10 other people
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for an ice retreat the place i used to be leaping
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off of cliffs into frozen lakes doing 10
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minute ice baths hiking up a mountain
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in not anything however my shorts within the snow for
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hours on finish i might have concept that i
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would get hypothermia and die
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up to now in my existence if i tried
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that and that i did that and that was once
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one thing that i by no means imagined i may just
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in all probability do i used to be anyone that
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me steve we might move snowboarding after we had been
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youngsters and my palms would freeze and
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that was once beneath two units of gloves
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you’re a proper little shivering ninny in
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your giant outdated onesie
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terrified of the chilly
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couldn’t hack it at the chair elevate
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and that’s i’m announcing that the nicest
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means imaginable no yeah no i respect you
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dealing with that gently
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i um no i used to be uh neatly mum used to have
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is it reinus the place you you’ve gotten unhealthy
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stream and that i appear to have inherited
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that from her my hands would move yellow
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within the chilly after which i oh now you are making
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me now you are making me sound like a jerk
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as a result of you’ve gotten a real situation so
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don’t
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do this and that’s chess
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however i i you understand it was once it was once one thing
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that i by no means would have concept i may just
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do after which i went and did this factor
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and and it’s utterly right here’s the item
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the literal factor is oh it modified my
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courting with the chilly and what i
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concept i may just do within the chilly but it surely
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did so a lot more than that what it did
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is it made me understand what else
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in my existence
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am i in a position to that i’ve been telling
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myself i will’t do
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and i might say to everybody in the market
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listening at this time should you’re listening
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to this for your automobile at the teach
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anyplace you pay attention to this for your
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space
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suppose at this time have you ever ever had a
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second the place you probably did one thing that
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up to now you concept you
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couldn’t do otherwise you concept you wouldn’t
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revel in
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and it made you know
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oh my god i’ve
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there should be so by means of simply
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simply the common sense of because of this there
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should be such a lot of different issues in my existence
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that i will do
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the sector simply were given such a lot larger
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as a result of there’s these types of issues i instructed
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myself i couldn’t do and that was once a lie
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and it was once in keeping with this concept that i had
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of myself which is all wrapped up in our
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regrets and our self-loathing and what
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i’ve achieved prior to now this concept of what
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i’m in a position to this concept of what my
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obstacles are this is handiest in keeping with
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having a look within the rear view reflect it’s no longer
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in keeping with the long run this isn’t some i
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actually need other people to grasp this
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this isn’t
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some motivational more or less rant i’m going
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on
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i’m announcing that the sheer common sense
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exams out that
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what we all know ourselves to be able to
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nowadays is handiest in keeping with
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what we’ve achieved earlier than
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it isn’t in keeping with what’s imaginable in
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the long run on what we haven’t achieved but
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and if we need to do extra
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then it begins by means of announcing like he’s it’s
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virtually like right here’s a formulation that we will be able to
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all use
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ok i’ve regrets
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superb as david white the british
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poet says be apologetic about
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should you don’t have any regrets the place have
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you been
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there when anyone says no regrets i
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by no means no be apologetic about not anything the place have you ever
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been yeah in little leave out sunshine steve
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carell says proust stated about struggling
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it’s like that’s the place he realized
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the whole thing proper all that struggling
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he that’s that’s the place he realized all
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the richness all of the stuff of existence was once
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in that and and david white mentions you
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know you should should you bullied anyone at
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college and also you be apologetic about it
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that be apologetic about adjustments the best way you deal with
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other people for the remainder of your existence
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with out the be apologetic about the place’s the impetus
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for alternate
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the place does the gas come from while you
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be apologetic about one thing it will provide you with an
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alternative to switch so if we take our
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regrets from the previous and we are saying ok
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the primary a part of my formulation is to make use of
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this be apologetic about as gas
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what’s it i need to do
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now what’s it i need to do another way
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and should you’re telling your self oh however i
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don’t have a lot time left or i’ve
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already wasted such a lot time there’s no longer
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that a lot left at the clock neatly wager
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what you’re nonetheless right here which means that you
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can nonetheless be afflicted by making the mistaken
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selections
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so if all you need is to keep away from struggling
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it nonetheless is smart to do issues
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another way
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christopher hitchens stated make a choice your
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regrets in existence
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make a choice your regrets we’re all going to
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have them make a choice your regrets
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now are you gonna are living to to be apologetic about
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this second the place you discovered one thing
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out after which nonetheless disregarded it
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and you continue to had all this time left on
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the clock the place you should have made a
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shift the place you should have achieved
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one thing other you should are living to
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be apologetic about spending extra years beating
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your self up as an alternative of extra years dwelling
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or making an affect
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however we use that be apologetic about
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to head out and do one thing and that i consider
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that despite the fact that alternate is a sluggish
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procedure
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we wildly overestimate how a lot time it
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will take to really feel higher
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i’ll repeat that adjust
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is a sluggish procedure
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getting other ends up in our existence
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could be a sluggish procedure
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whether or not it’s the trail to development
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monetary independence and freedom
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whether or not it’s the trail to
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development a super courting whether or not
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it’s the trail to having a super frame
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whether or not it’s the trail to having robust
15:51
friendships whether or not it’s the trail to
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simply being a greater particular person these items
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don’t occur in a single day we all know that
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as a result of we understand how arduous it’s to switch
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our dependancy replacing a dependancy is a
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tricky factor
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now we have our reflexes now we have our wiring
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and it’s about unwiring and rewiring and
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that takes time however feeling higher
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doesn’t take just about as a lot time as we
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suppose it’ll
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i’m
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at all times shocked
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when i’m feeling
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extraordinarily low or when i’m feeling at the back of
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or when i believe crushed and i’m
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telling myself this is i’m gonna need to
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transfer a mountain to be able to
16:31
get out of this case
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of that
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has some reality to it
16:40
to be able to essentially alternate the
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state of affairs that i’m crushed by means of
16:45
most often it’s gonna imply numerous paintings
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through the years
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the section that i’m miscalculating is how
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briefly i will really feel higher
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it’s like writing a ebook
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if i believe crushed by means of the possibility of
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writing a ebook
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the
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feeling
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that writing a ebook is is
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going to require a ton of hours
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is suitable
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it’ll
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what i’m underestimating is how excellent
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i’ll really feel simply by writing for one hour
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completely 100 agree since you you
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write for one hour and also you get this
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quick feeling of empowerment
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and delight for your day or even a
17:28
more or less you understand it steve that writing
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euphoria you get after you’ve achieved a
17:31
writing consultation simply the mere act of
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having written will provide you with a type of
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euphoria
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this is indifferent from
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whether or not you
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were given you’ll have handiest were given part a p.c
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nearer
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to completing the item however the euphoria
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is in fact connected to extra so
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to simply having been the individual you
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sought after to be in that hour then it’s
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connected to the growth you made
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oh needless to say and i believe other people get means
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too uh slowed down within the oh i made
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those errors previous
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means too slowed down and overestimate the
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value of that they usually underestimate
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the whole thing they may be able to do
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now and the likelihood now the following
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month forward the following 12 months forward 10 years
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forward there’s such a lot you’ll be able to
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do to switch how you are feeling that there’s
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no longer there’s so little worth in being
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slowed down in that mistake and
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decoupling
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the effects
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that you just’ll get for your existence from
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replacing one thing now
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from the sensation you’ll be able to have now
18:36
by means of doing one thing other yeah the
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effects is also sluggish
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however the feeling doesn’t need to be the
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praise
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of doing one thing other and the
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satisfaction that that creates
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the sensation of i’m in the end dwelling or i’m
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in the end being the brave particular person i
18:53
sought after to be or i’m in the end having
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tricky conversations that i’ve been
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taking out perpetually and the satisfaction that
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offers us
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and it’s no longer oh i’m in the end happy with the
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particular person i hated earlier than no it’s you’re no longer
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the individual you had been earlier than prevent
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associating with that particular person
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you’re a brand new particular person yeah and also you get to
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be happy with this logo new particular person nowadays
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you get to be that
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it doesn’t imply that that new particular person
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nowadays goes to have wildly other
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cases from the one that woke
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up the day gone by for the reason that cases
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take time to switch in maximum eventualities
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however you’ll be able to have an absolutely other
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feeling about the one that aroused from sleep
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nowadays simply by doing one thing other
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and while you get a special feeling
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that begins to reproduce self assurance
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as a result of when you are feeling like guy i simply
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went for a run this morning and
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my weight didn’t alternate
19:52
however i’m actually happy with myself
19:55
i went for that run i did a difficult factor
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that provides us self assurance you get started
19:59
pondering what else may just i do nowadays i i
20:02
get the similar feeling when i tidy the
20:03
space i simply it’s a small factor however i
20:05
tidy a room in the home and that i unexpectedly
20:07
move what else may just i do at this time or
20:09
when i whole a work of labor for the
20:11
and even make growth for an hour or do
20:13
one thing tricky i believe what else do
20:15
i need to tackle nowadays you get momentum
20:17
the sensation creates momentum and
20:20
momentum creates consistency and
20:22
consistency through the years creates effects
20:26
and so that’s the formulation let your
20:28
be apologetic about
20:30
have you are making a special determination proper
20:32
now i would like one thing to be other i
20:35
need to have a special feeling about
20:36
the individual i’m nowadays neatly what does
20:38
that imply i’ve to do nowadays move do this
20:39
factor even supposing you don’t get effects get
20:41
the sensation while you get the sensation
20:44
you begin to get that self assurance
20:46
and while you get that self assurance you get
20:48
momentum momentum is consistency
20:50
consistency is effects
20:52
you’re alive nowadays
20:55
so don’t let your be apologetic about blind you to
20:57
how satisfied you’ll be able to be at this time by means of being
21:00
the individual you need to be
21:02
and that still begins
21:05
by means of
21:06
replacing the the that means for ourselves
21:09
of the phrase be apologetic about
21:11
when i say
21:12
i be apologetic about issues
21:14
and other people can have heard me say that
21:16
previous on this episode and concept guy
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that’s actually unhappy that matt needs he
21:19
may just return and do issues another way
21:21
i need to make it very transparent to other people
21:24
when i say i be apologetic about one thing i don’t
21:26
that’s no longer imbued with all of this
21:29
emotion and the poison
21:31
that we go along with be apologetic about after we
21:33
simply stay consuming this poison of
21:35
self-hatred it’s no longer that
21:38
it’s
21:38
it’s actually me announcing i wouldn’t do this
21:41
nowadays
21:43
i wouldn’t do this nowadays however i don’t
21:46
hate me nowadays
21:48
for one thing that
21:51
a previous me did
21:54
i get up nowadays
21:56
and get to be who i need to be
21:59
and as an alternative of seeing all of it as wasted
22:02
time and or take a look at all that’s been misplaced
22:06
i will a take a look at what’s been received
22:08
in the course of the perception and in addition recognize
22:09
that i actually wouldn’t have that
22:11
perception with out that be apologetic about so as to want
22:14
not to have the be apologetic about is to additionally rid
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your self of the perception
22:19
but additionally to understand that
22:22
if i simply take at the perspective that i’m
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a brand spanking new particular person nowadays
22:28
i don’t in fact suppose
22:30
on this timeline of let’s say you had been
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70 years outdated and also you had been gonna die at
22:36
80
22:37
and also you handiest had 10 years left and also you’d
22:39
been doing one thing your whole existence
22:42
and also you appeared on the calculation of
22:43
your existence and stated
22:46
that is so unhappy i’ve neglected out on 50
22:49
years
22:50
of a undeniable factor
22:52
on account of what i’ve achieved and that i handiest
22:54
have 10 years left
22:57
i need to be offering a special point of view
23:00
what if the existence
23:03
of that 70 12 months outdated started nowadays
23:07
what if as an alternative of fascinated about
23:09
your self as anyone who’s been alive for
23:11
70 years that’s going to be alive for 80
23:14
what if as an alternative you stated
23:17
i’m an individual who was once born nowadays who has
23:20
10 years to are living
23:23
you’d have an absolutely other
23:25
however however you inherited
23:28
the entire insights of anyone who’s
23:30
been alive for 70 years
23:34
so i’m being born nowadays and i’ve 10
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years to are living as arduous as i would like as a lot
23:39
as i would like as richly as i would like as
23:41
enjoyably as i would like i’ve 10 years to
23:44
are living no longer
23:45
i’ve were given 10 years to are living however i’ve were given
23:48
i’ve i’ve 10 years to are living
23:51
up to i would like this can be a reward
23:54
i aroused from sleep nowadays and i’ve 10 years to
23:56
are living
23:57
however i additionally inherit the insights of this
24:00
different dude who’s been round for 70
24:02
years what do i need to do with those 10
24:05
years
24:07
that’s now you don’t recall to mind it as i’ve
24:09
were given 10 years left you recall to mind it as
24:11
i’ve 10 years
24:14
ranging from scratch now
24:17
to head arduous and are living the best way
24:19
that i need to are living that to me is
24:21
thrilling
24:23
yeah
24:24
and that’s the sport all of us get to play
24:26
with ourselves beginning nowadays
24:29
love
24:30
love the one that were given you the perception
24:34
and make the individual proud who began
24:37
nowadays
24:39
yeah you may like be
24:41
an alien who drops on this frame and
24:43
you’d be like huh
24:45
this particular person’s in some poisonous crappy
24:47
courting they’ve wasted ten years
24:48
yeah i’m gonna move and that i’m gonna move and
24:50
have a dialog now and finish that
24:52
[ __ ] yeah and uh let’s do one thing else
24:55
that’s precisely it and it’s like huh we
24:57
have all this to play with now glance i
24:59
can move and contact that particular person make that
25:01
connection have that journey it’s like
25:04
my slate to color on as an alternative of like
25:07
wearing the whole thing from the previous with
25:10
you always and that i keep in mind charlie
25:13
munger who i see as form of a a little of a
25:15
religious mentor um nice
25:18
investor form of smart guy 97
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uh and he uh
25:24
he simply mentioned on this
25:26
one assembly about the price of bitterness
25:28
and the price of wearing
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the rest
25:32
wearing any sense of bitterness of previous
25:35
selections previous issues anyone did he
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stated it’s simply it’s so so so basic
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not to lift
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bitterness with you and it was once form of
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one cornerstone factor he stated a drum
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into any individual is
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don’t don’t lift bitterness from the
25:51
previous and move selections previous issues
25:55
with you presently
25:56
should you wanna
25:57
be fruitful revel in your existence do
26:00
issues now that’s stunning actually
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vital to let move of that
26:06
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i am hoping that you’re seeing with those
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movies we’re making that there’s a
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it’s no longer as regards to courting recommendation that i
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am in i i like being concerned within the
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deeper problems that have an effect on our lives i
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